Kisa Gotami was a grief-stricken mother who refused to accept her son's death. Her journey from house to house in search of mustard-seed taught her several important moral values.
Universality of Death: She learnt that death comes to every household — "the living are few, but the dead are many." Death is the common destiny of all mortals, both young and old, wise and foolish.
Overcoming Selfishness: She realised she had been selfish in her grief. Sorrow is universal, and clinging to personal grief while ignoring others' suffering is a form of selfishness.
Acceptance brings Peace: The Buddha taught that weeping and lamentation do not save the dead; they only increase one's own pain. True peace comes by drawing out the arrow of grief and accepting life's terms.
Path to Immortality: She understood that surrendering selfishness leads to immortality. The wise do not grieve, knowing the inevitable nature of the world.
Source: The Story of Kisa Gotami, Chapter 8
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