Grief or sadness is an emotion natural to all types of loss or significant change. You have been asked to present an analysis of the approaches of Lencho and Kisa Gotami in dealing with their respective losses. Write this presentation draft including your insights, and comparing the approaches of both.
You may begin like this: One acknowledges that Lencho had unwavering faith in God whereas Kisa Gotami in her grief, believed that her son .................... however ..................... .
(Reference – A Letter to God and The Sermon at Benares)
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Model Answer
One acknowledges that Lencho had unwavering faith in God whereas Kisa Gotami, in her grief, believed that her son could still be saved; however, both characters responded to loss in deeply human yet contrasting ways.
Lencho's Approach: Lencho suffered the destruction of his crops by a hailstorm — a material loss. His grief did not paralyse him. Instead, his unshakeable faith in God drove him to action. He wrote a letter to God asking for money, demonstrating that his coping mechanism was faith and hope. He never questioned whether help would come; he only acted.
Kisa Gotami's Approach: Her grief over her son's death was intense and irrational — she refused to accept his death. She wandered desperately seeking medicine for a dead child, showing denial and desperation. Only through the Buddha's compassionate method — sending her house to house — did she realise that death is universal. She then surrendered her selfishness and found peace.
Comparison: Lencho coped through active faith; Kisa Gotami reached acceptance only after a guided journey through her grief. Both ultimately found resolution — one through belief, the other through wisdom.
Source: A Letter to God, Chapter 1; The Sermon at Benares, Chapter 8
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Explanation
- The question asks for analysis and comparison — examiners expect you to clearly state each character's approach and then draw a comparison. Avoid retelling the story.
- Key contrast: Lencho = faith-driven, active coping; Kisa Gotami = denial → acceptance through insight.
- Use the prompt line given in the question to open your answer — it signals to the examiner you have understood the task.
- The Buddha's method of teaching (making Kisa Gotami discover truth herself) is worth noting as it shows indirect guidance vs. Lencho's self-driven faith.
- Aim for 120–150 words; this answer is calibrated for 6 marks.